Mother's Day can be so difficult. I lost my Mom as a freshman in college, so she missed my graduation, wedding, first teaching job, and the miraculous birth of my daughter. It used to be a day filled with pain and loss. Just the sight of mothers and daughters out shopping together and having lunch used to destroy me. The birth of my daughter after years of infertility treatments helped tremendously in healing my grief. I still cry on Mother's Day, but almost 40 years after her death, those tears are more nostalgic than grief-stricken.
I have two students who were removed from their mothers by DCF due to drug addiction and unsafe homes less than two months ago. I had to handle preparations for Mother's Day very carefully explaining that his Grandma and her Uncle will be celebrated today. Those heroes who took in those confused young children providing loving and safe homes deserve to to celebrated and honored on Mother's Day. They will receive the plants that they grew from seeds, the flower pots they decorated, and the cards they created with love.