I have a childhood friend and she has a very different family make-up... She, lives with 2 men, and they have lived together for years and years... Yes the 3 of them are in a relationship, and it works for them... They have 2 sons, who now are grown with families of their own... When the youngest son got married, his new father in law, who was very uneasy, clumsy, overly cautious and above all curious about how things came together, and how things work...
So he asked my friend ... So how did this all start? She said the normal way, and winked at him... to which he turned red... then she went on to say we just have more love to give our boys... I thought that was the perfect answer...